In this article I'm aiming to vent out
some recent frustrations and address, head on, an issue I've touched
upon in past posts concerning women's rights, gender roles and body
politics. The subject seems to have either surfaced or resurfaced in
the media recently in regards to the phenomena of cyber blackmail.
The discussion has seemed to focus on the risks of sexual
exploitation via the internet, but there is a much deeper and scarily
socially integrated belief system that needs to be addressed in order
to tackle occurrences and 'trends' such as this one.
The nature of this form of blackmail is
itself based upon preconceived and accepted ideas of female sexuality
and the female body. Perhaps stemming from, or at the very least
intensified by religious ideologies and practices, female sexuality
has, both in the past and the present, been either denied or
demonised. Indeed, sex itself, one of the most biologically necessary
and most natural activities has long been a subject morally
scrutinised and, often, a condemned or vilified act. Desire and
sexual pleasure have often been classed as sins not only against god
but also against our social codes of conduct. This judgement
intensifies dramatically when focussed upon the female proportion of
our population.
The sexualization of the female body
has a lot to answer to in regards to this form of blackmail. In many
'modern', 'democratic' and 'western' societies, there is substantial
criticism of certain forms of religious dress (eg. The burqa, niqab,
hijab etc). They can be seen as tools that enable gender inequality
to continue and promote the marginalisation of women in general.
However, in the same way followers of Islam may seek modesty through
covering their hair (considered part of one's 'awra' (nakedness) in
Islam), women in these societies are inclined via social stigma and
the law to cover up parts of their bodies considered in a 'free'
society to be indecent, sexual and immodest.
The main body parts I want to discuss
are naturally breasts. This is mainly due to the fact that in this
society there is at least equality if not freedom as regards to
female and male reproductive organs being on show in public. Most of
the time this is considered indecent exposure, be the person male or
female. The disparity is more prominent in regards to naked torsos.
Whereas a male can walk around topless, a woman cannot. When I say
cannot, I refer not only to the stigma this would bring, but also to
the law. Under
the Sexual Offences Act 2003 it is not an offence to be naked in
public in England and Wales, however, when a person is deemed to be
attempting to provoke upset or alarm by being naked, they could be
arrested or prosecuted through laws relating to public decency,
indecent exposure or harassment.
Despite
the law clearly stating that public nudity is not illegal, women are
often told to put their top back on in public places and wrongly told
(by misinformed law enforcers) that being topless in public is
against the law. On a hot summers day however, while not regarded as
particularly 'classy', many British men walk around topless in broad
daylight. There often seem to be more sweaty bare male chests on the
highstreet than shops during these months. As offensive as I could
find it to be confronted by a swarm of bare-chested men (not that I
do find the human body offensive), I recognise the importance of
their freedom to do so. For the same reason, I strongly believe in a
woman's right to be topless and for the female form to be
desexualized.
There
should be no guilt or shame in toplessness for either gender- the
leaking of topless photos of females my age online, and the slut
shaming that tends to follow is in my mind therefore irrational. Many
males even have photographs of themselves topless in their Facebook
photo albums or as their profile picture. Yes, breasts are considered
attractive and splashed across male magazines, but so are male
torsos. Yes, breasts are considered attractive to heterosexual males,
but so are male torsos to homosexual men. Reasons often given to
justify women covering their breasts include to avoid distracting men
and deliberately provoking sexual attention. It seems unlikely
however, that society would condemn a straight man for deliberately
provoking a gay man through his choice of (or lack of) top.
The
argument therefore needs, in my view to be shifted in a different
direction- by addressing the real issues of sex guilt amongst and
against women and gender disparity, sex will cease to be used as a
weapon against women, and embraced instead as a natural and moral
act. On an even deeper level, nakedness itself and the perceptions of
nudity as being something solely restricted to sex and showers should
be reevaluated. I tried to find a good quote on general nudity to
include in this concluding paragraph, but couldn't find one that
wasn't about sex. That in itself seems a particularly relevant point
to end on.

as an anthro major, I love your point of view..
ReplyDeleteone unrelated ques: how did you link/edit your about me & contact sections?
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